May 18, 2008
So, I basically owe Jon the intern so much for being able to translate for me in church. I get SO much from the meetings because of him. Ok, wait, back to the start of my day. So, I fell asleep in my clothes last night cuz Jon was supposed to call me when he got home to help me with my internet...yeah, epic fail. So I woke up this morning in a super panic because I also forgot to set my alarm. So I rush into the shower and get ready for church super fast. Thankfully I live super close to church, so I hopped on my bike and got to church like 10 minutes early. As I walked in the missionaries reminded me that the area authority and the steak president was there. They said I’d like them and that I should go say hi. So, I went up the stairs and walked into the chapel. I found the two men greeting everyone as they came in. They were surprised to see me, and asked if I just moved in. I told them my situation and how there were 2 more of us…coming, lol. One of the men was a white guy and the other was Japanese. I totally placed the white guy as the area authority and the Japanese man as the stake president. (I had them backwards, lol) The Japanese man looked like Alec Baldwin’s Japanese twin. True story. It was funny. So I go sit down and wait for my 2 friends to show…and as I wait this lady from relief society hands me an English hymnbook, which was way super nice of her. I like being able to follow along. It’s way cool to hear English songs in Japanese because they match the lyrics to the tune so well. Jon says they don’t do that well getting the same meaning across, but for the most part the first verse is usually close. So anyway, it’s 5 minutes until the meeting starts and Jon shows up. He said he was supposed to meet Reina but she never showed. He tried calling but she never answered. I told him she was probably asleep. But we kept trying anyway. The meeting starts as usual, the Bishop usually conducts here. He introduces the speakers and then sits down. After we take sacrament the stake president stands. He’s a big bald white dude. Lol. But he has the bishop stand and talks about how amazing our bishop is. Then he continues his talk on the power a bishop has and how blessed we are to have bishops. He kept his talk short, he said he knew we wanted to hear from the area authority. Lol. So, the area authority stands and has the stake president stand up. He starts his talk by saying what a great and loving man the stake president is. Then he moves on to what his real topic is: Missionary work. His talk was so good, I wish I could remember all that was said. He talked about 3 examples of missionaries he had known. One was an American missionary who came to his home. When he saw him he had this really old coat on, so he commented on it and said it was quite the coat. The boy then proceeded to tell him that the coat was worn by his father when he served his mission in Japan. This touched the area authority, and he asked about his family. I don’t remember the specifics of the story, but the boy’s parents came to pick him up in Japan and he introduced them to the area authority. (I wish I knew his name,lol) He said he was able to tell the boy’s parents what a good man their son was and how he was worthy to wear that coat. His second story was about another American boy who was from Sandy Utah. The area authority was going to Salt Lake for general conference so he offered to call the boy’s parents. When he was in Utah he called them and was able to tell them that their son was doing well and that they should be proud of him. They were thankful for the call and invited him over to their house. He told them he could only spare 2 hours, but that he’d love to come. When he got there he found that the boy was the oldest son of 10 kids. He was impressed with the family and found the pictures of their son eating the gross food in Japan funny. (aka, nato…)He said the parents gave him a small package and asked him to deliver it to their son. They told him it had letters from everyone in the family inside. On the outside of the package was a note from their father. It simply read “Dear Taylor (the missionary), work hard hard hard.” I loved that. It says so much in that short sentence. It made me think of Jon and how important the work he will be doing really is.The third missionary was a woman from Ireland. When he met her he could tell she was having a hard time, so he sincerely asked her if she was alright. The woman told him that while she was in Japan she got to teach her Grandmother the gospel. Her family was so happy that she excepted it that they flew over for the baptism. She was able to see her parents and she was grateful for that, as her mother passed away soon after. She said that she knew the Lord has his hand in everything because she was able to see her mom before she died. He said he was very impressed by the missionaries attitude about it. I was too. How great is that? She could see how the Lord had blessed her.He kept saying throughout his talk how we need to pray for the missionaries and try to be good missionaries ourselves. He gave us some advice to pick three families. One that has just had a baby, one that has just lost someone to death, and one that had just been married. He said to send the missionaries to all three, because they have approaches for all three. He said if you think about it, you probably know people that fit at least two of those categories. Yeah, wow, I loved listening to his talk. So, after sacrament meeting was Sunday school. It was cute, cuz the Sunday school teacher was super nervous to be teaching to the area authority, lol. Then came relief society. Still no Reina, so no translation for me. Blah, eh, I went anyway. So, I’m sitting there and these two ladies come up to me and start talking to me in English. Super nice ladies, and their English was great. So, they again get me an English manual and they ask me to give the opening prayer. I was going to say no, but they said “English is ok.” So, I did it. It’s weird praying when you’re not sure anyone else can understand you. You feel a little more free with what you say and you’re not concentrating on what comes out of your mouth but you try to bring the spirit more. It’s really a cool thing. Anyway, so we are practicing this song by Janice Cap Perry called “Where is Heaven?”. It’s a cute song, and they translated it into Japanese. So, we sing it and after words one of the sisters comments how I’m not singing, and that English is ok. I’m like ‘um, yeah, not going to sing in English when you guys are singing in Japanese, that would be weird.” But I nod and smile anyway. Well, then they start the song again, and EVERYONE is singing in English. It was WAY cute! When we finished they said that everyone could sing that way, so they were going to sing it in English from now on. Then they asked how their English was, it was so cute. The thoughtfulness of those sisters is amazing. They change the way they all sing a song for one person. I was unable to get much out of the relief society lesson, but I knew the topic and the sisters that sat next to me were able to tell me the scripture references so I could follow along. So, after church I caught up with Jon and told him I was going to call home real fast. Mostly I wanted to exit because they were serving lunch before the fireside, and I didn’t want to insult anyone by not eating, lol. I asked him if he would be alright translating the fireside for me, and he said that he’d have no problem with it. He said that he was able to get a lot out of the last meeting because translating makes him focus more on the talks. Anyway, so the fireside was great, but short. It was just the area authority speaking. His talk was on prayer. He started by saying how important couple prayer is, and how it can strengthen a marriage. Then he spoke about family prayer, and how the kids might not get it or appreciate the effort, but they'll know that prayer is important to their parents, and that's important. It was a good talk, and afterwards he opened it up for any questions. He started by talking about his family, and how he's had 2 missionaries and 1 daughter preparing. His 19 year old son he described as "wild¨ and said he didn't come to church anymore. So, one lady raised her hand and said that she has a "wild¨ daughter and wondered how he handled his son. Now this was the part I liked. It made me cry actually. He said that in his travels he has met many parents who have wild children, and he often hears them say that they have failed that child. He said they often look into the past and question what when wrong, and how they could have prevented it. These were his exact words "Never say that you have failed. You haven't. Some families do all the right things, they have family home evening, they pray as a family, they study the scriptures and they still have a child go astray. You did not fail them.¨ He went on to say that we just need to love those children and pray for them. He also said to not let them forget our values and beliefs. We should let them know when what they do isn't to our approval and he said to not forget to bare our testimony to them so that they remember how we really do believe. I don't know, it just touched me so much to hear that. You could tell he is going through a hard time with his son. But just to hear him say that we should never blame ourselves, I don't know, it was just a good thing to hear. After the fireside we got ahold of Reina. She had over slept and was going to hang out with her aunt anyway. So, Jon offered to come over and look at my air conditioner cuz I think it's broken. So he followed me home. He kinda figured out my ac and he helped me with my internet. Yay, lol. For dinner I made these small steak strip things that ended up tasting super good. I loved them. But that was my day. I am SO grateful for Jon's willingness to translate for me, and I thank him a lot for doing it. Well, I should go.

May 17, 2008

So, I've been failing at writing, so this is going to have several days of stuff to catch you up on this week.



Monday- We met with Peter, our area leader guy, at starbucks for breakfast. We asked him about our internet and he said we should get the cards that day. We also talked to him about general area stuff and the types of things we would be doing in our schools. After we left him one of our helpers picked us up and she called our schools (that had been changed twice already that day) so we could meet the principals and such. So, she calls Reina's school first and everything is all set up. Then she calls mine, and the same-easy to go and meet. Then she calls Jon's school. The principal yells at her about how she didn't know anything about Interac and the she needs authorization from the board of education first. Lol, poor Jon. So, we go to my school first. That went well. Reina translated for me, and he (the principal) seemed really nice. He was super helpful and very friendly . Then we go for some lunch (yay for spaghetti again :D) then on to Reina's school. The principal was busy so we met with the head of the English department. She seemed really nice. Jon translated for me there, and so I got an idea of what was being said. We couldn't go to Jon's school, because we hadn't heard back from them, so he was going to go on Tuesday, while Reina and I started school. So, after that our helper took us to get bikes, and we had really needed them to get to and from anywhere. We all had to ride them home because they wouldn't fit in our helper's car. Reina lived close so we said goodbye to her (and her mom came from Guam to stay with her for a while) and Jon and I took off on our bikes toward our places. Jon and Reina had been watching this Japanese drama and were always talking about it, and Jon had them on DVD with English subtitles, so he asked if I wanted to watch some that night. So, we biked to his place so he could change out of his suit and get his compy before we headed for my place. We actually stopped at KFC for dinner, which was funny cuz they have this statue of the kernel outside the door that is super creepy, lol. After dinner, (I had a chicken sandwich...that Jon actually paid for, which was nice of him), we went to Hallows (the safeway of my area) and got grape fanta and calpus pop. Jon said they taste great together. He also helped me get a Hallows card, so I can get discounts or whatever. Then we went back to my place and watched the shows. I loved them, lol. Super soap operaish. I didn't get to finish it, but I had kept Jon til 11pm so I thought I should let him go as I had school the next day, lol. (And the juice mix wasn't bad either, the calpus made the fanta kinda sweet)



Tuesday- So, school was uneventful at first. Everyone loved that I was from Seattle, and kept telling me that Ichiro was a genius. Lol. The English teacher that is over me was kinda weird, she just gave me some books to look at (their English text books) then left me at my desk. The principal came and rescued me to give me a tour of the school. That was fun, in one of the special needs classes I got to have a student show me how to make a paper crane. Mine looks awful, lol, but hey, I made it. The principal showed me that each student makes 1000 of them then ties them in a row on a string. They were going to take them the next day to Hiroshima to the peace monument. I thought that was cool. Then it was time for lunch, and that day lunch was kinda gross. It was an orange, a bowl of rice, a bowl of noodles and vinegar, and a soup of some kind with chopped up eel and some other crazy unidentifiable meat. Lol, eh, I'm going to lose weight. At about three the English teacher came up to me with a bombshell and said "You teach 7 classes a day and we give you 2 weeks to make your lesson plans.¨ I was like"K...what?" I kinda freaked when she said that. We had been told something totally different in training, so yeah. No bueno. I called Brian that night and told him about it. He said it wasn't right, and that he'd get back to me. Oh, and my bike flippin hurts my butt something awful, lol. I can't sit anywhere without it hurting now,lol. I'm glad it's only a 20 min bike ride each way...



Wednesday- I decided to spend the day at school planning my first class. So, I drew pics of Seattle, Mt Rainier, and an apple/salmon. That actually took up most of my day. I get off at 3:40 every day, so it wasn't bad. One of the teachers made this treat that they had me try. They said that in English it translates to mean milk rice cake. Only, it's not a rice cake at all. It was this super airy stuff that they whip up in a pot and roll into a ball. Then they roll it in soy and sugar. I ate two of them, but it didn't taste very good. Soy and sugar are not a good combo, lol. I've also become accustomed to being a mute. It's hard to not speak the language and want to know what is being said. I did get to meet the school's NET and he was super nice. He was from Venezuela and was surprised at the situation I am in at the school as well. But, he told me some cool things to be sure and do.



Thursday- I called Interac to ask what is going on. Brian says that it's that the BOE thinks we are the same as NETs (native English Teachers) and we aren't . So, they are trying to communicate it with everyone and making sure the schools know what our job is. He said that Jon and Reina would be having the same problems and that I'd just have to suck it up for awhile but that things should be getting better. Fun. Then that afternoon I get a call from Interac saying to not come to school on Friday as I would be going to exchange the rest of my money and going for a health check. Cool, day off. Lol. So, that day was uneventful as well. Lunch that day was interesting, it was root tempura, some chicken soup of some kind and rice. I actually liked it. I didn't know it was root tempura until the teacher sitting next to me (the Japanese teacher) came and I asked her what it was. She doesn't speak very good English so she drew it for me. That was creative, lol. The teachers seem nice, so that's good. But, it's rather boring to sit at your desk all day and come up with random things to color.



Friday- Ok, so Jon couldn't go with us because he was going to start teaching so it was just Reina and I going on our little trip. Yukare (I think I spelled that way wrong, lol, it's pronounced Youcarde), our helper, came at got me at 10:30 am and we went to exchange the rest of my money. After that we went to a store to ask why my internet card wasn't working. They said it was because the card is Japanese and my compy isn't. So, it wasn't going to work. Fun, sigh. Then we went to McDonald's. The lady at the counter spoke English, so that was fun, lol. After lunch we picked up Reina and went to the hospital. That was cool, cuz they have this cool machine that takes your weight then this thing comes down and taps you on the head so they know your height. They did a vision and hearing test as well. Anyway, the main doctor spoke English and he listened to my lungs and heart and said everything was fine. After the doctor we went to city hall and applied for my alien card. I have to go back in 2 weeks to pick it up. While we were there I got a call from Jon saying that he wanted to get together with Reina to celebrate her birthday super late, lol. So, we agreed to go to Okayama for dinner. We met at the train station. Actually, behind the train station is this place called Travoli park. It's an amusement park area. While waiting for Reina, Jon and I watched this big clock tower thing do a musical thing, it was pretty cool. He told me his first day teaching was crazy, but he’s sure it will get better, lol. We ended up eating shabu shabu (sure I spelled that wrong too, lol). It’s where you get a burner with a pot of boiling water between you. Then they serve you raw beef and veggies to cook in the water and dip in one of two sauces. It’s all you can eat for a set time. It was interesting. One of the many not good but not bad foods I’ve had here. Lol. But, it was fun, we enjoy each other’s company. After dinner we heard music so we headed to this underground area and listened to a group play guitar and sing songs for a bit. They were good. Then we heard more music above ground, so we left them and went up. These guys had a beat box, so they had vocals, guitar, and drums. We all liked them better, so we stood around and listened to them for a while. One of them came over and chatted with us. They actually were super friendly and funny. We stayed with them the rest of the night. Jon plays guitar and likes to sing, so they let him play their guitar for a bit and sing some American songs. We had a lot of fun. We were there until midnight before we left for our apartments again. They were all from Kurashiki as well, so we rode the train with them. It made for a fun evening.



Saturday- So that leaves me with today…I got a call from Reina about this NHK guy bugging her for money for her tv. She makes me laugh. She lied to him and said she was leaving next week so he left her alone. Lol, wow. After talking to her I decided to hit the internet cafĂ© and then go to the mall. I was at the mall for like 3 hours, just walking around. I got myself this way cute hairclip, but that was all I bought. I spent sometime in Starbucks as well, just wanting something that reminded me of home. I decided to call Jon and ask if he would help me buy a phone card, and he was happy to help. So, we met at the mall and rode to a convince store and bought one. Then he needed to go to Best, the electronic store, to order an internet card that would fit in his compy. After that we went to curry across the street. It is a whole lot more spicy than I thought it would be, but it was good. After Jon and I ate we parted ways and I went to Hallows to get me some steak. I have the kanji for steak and beef so I was set. (Thanks to Jon) I got the meat and some spices. We’ll see how it turns out, lol. That was my day, pretty boring, lol. But eh, oh well, it was relaxing.